I have long felt that we are being conditioned, by politicians and others who benefit by having ordinary people afraid of each other and at each others’ throats, and by an entertainment culture that continually pumps out apocalyptic narratives in which the worst of our human nature rises to the top. This culture gives us worlds in which people are pitted against each other in a desperate battle for survival and the only way to make it out alive is to lie, cheat, steal, brutalize, kill–and sometimes eat–one’s fellow human beings.
It feels to me as if someone with an agenda has been manufacturing these narratives, “training” us to think of each other as nothing more than competitors for scarce resources, enemies even. And to live accordingly. I haven’t seen the film “Contagion”, but I am told that it is representative of this trend: As soon as there is a big disruption in society, the social fabric immediately tears apart and people begin looting and killing each other.
But that’s not what I’m seeing around me now. What I’m seeing is people coming together, helping each other, encouraging each other. Yes, some of the nastier aspects of humanity are surfacing too: The people who report businesses and individuals for violating the draconian orders, and the police officers who unthinkingly obey those orders. But looking around me, the first seem to be the exception, and even the second is not universal. Neighbors are helping each other; people are sewing masks (for all the good they may do); and many local sheriffs across the country are recognizing that these lockdowns constitute a violation of fundamental rights, and are refusing to enforce them.
This is from Bretigne Shaffer, “Will the Grinch Steal Christmas?” LewRockwell.com, May 13.
I don’t endorse everything in her article but I do like these paragraphs. I also have noticed how generous and just simply nice people are being to each other. When I was about to get in my car on Sunday morning to meet a friend and go for our Sunday walk, a woman walked by, a woman I had never met, and we had a nice conversation in which we learned about each other’s lives.
The Pacific Grove High School shut down in March, which meant that graduating seniors didn’t get to do their senior trip, didn’t get the senior prom, and won’t have a real graduation. But someone came up with the idea of professionally made signs in seniors’ yards on which is a picture of the senior and his/her first name. I noticed this when walking around Pacific Grove on my Saturday walk.
The sign above is for Emma, who lives across the street and whom I had never met. Our street is one of the two busiest in Pacific Grove, so at times it feels as if a freeway separates us.
In an act of small generosity, I crossed the street Monday when I saw Emma on the sidewalk with her friends and handed her a $20 bill as her graduation present. (If you read the chapter on virtue in my book The Joy of Freedom: An Economist’s Odyssey, you’ll see that I’ve had difficulty being generous; the good news is that each year I’m getting a little better.) I think Emma wanted to make sure I wasn’t some creepy old guy and so she asked where I lived. I pointed out our house and told her that I was the grumpy guy who had come over in my pajamas at midnight on a Saturday the previous summer and knocked on their door because some of the kids were making a lot of noise on the trampoline. She laughed and said that that was her younger sister and she didn’t blame me.
I then had a nice talk with her and her 4 friends, all of whom are going to college in the fall, and I gave them a little “Dutch Uncle” (Milton Friedman’s term for his role in my life) advice about what courses to take.
Tyler Cowen links to a much bigger story about generosity combined with the profit motive.
READER COMMENTS
Andrea Mays
May 13 2020 at 3:07pm
Excellent to read good news, especially from a practitioner of the “dismal science.” I, too, am finding a less Hobbesian world out there than the news would suggest. And good for you participating in local kindness. Cheers!
Alan Goldhammer
May 13 2020 at 5:55pm
The high school signs are ubiquitous in our area as well. They are all done up in school colors and as you drive into a neighboring high school district you see the differences. At least three people in our neighborhood are sewing masks. With respect to masks, I’ve read papers on both side of topic. There was an interesting paper today that showed decay of virus was fastest on cotton and paper surfaces as compared to metal and plastic. Make of that data what you will. Masks are protective in most situations other than close contact with someone who is actively infectious.
For Zoom meetings and the eventuality of future business meetings, I had a matching tie and mask set made by the woman who makes my ties. Picture is HERE along with some COVID-19 materials of interest.
Matthias Görgens
May 13 2020 at 11:15pm
Do you out the mask in for zoom meetings? Or just have it around as a prop or something else?
Alan Goldhammer
May 14 2020 at 7:34am
I read on the Internet that you can catch COVID-19 from doing Zoom meetings. If it is on the Internet it has to be true! I wear my mask while web surfing; one has to be safe in all circumstances.
Actually, I thought it would be cool to have a matching mask and tie. I sent a picture up to the woman who makes my ties and she has used it on here Facebook and Instagram pages. The masks are made of cotton which is one of the better fabrics for protection against COVID-19 in several studies that I have read. Masks are going to be the new normal for the next several months until we get more information on immunity in the general population.
Matthias Görgens
May 15 2020 at 3:27am
Just had a belated look at your picture. Pretty cool!
Perhaps you should have multiple sets?
Phil H
May 14 2020 at 2:44am
It’s a really good point about the media, which loves conflict. Even in classy literature, this holds true. I just read a great article about a real-life “Lord of the Flies” situation, in which the stranded children worked together and survived in the most civilised way. I love William Golding, but this really made me think!
https://www.theguardian.com/books/2020/may/09/the-real-lord-of-the-flies-what-happened-when-six-boys-were-shipwrecked-for-15-months
Tyler Wells
May 14 2020 at 9:26am
Fantastic link, well worth reading even just for human interest. What a beautiful and complex creature is the human being! Capable of both perpetuating unimaginable savagery and selfless compassion, sometimes within the same individual. My sister-in-law would rescue a stray dog and loves my Guatemalan and obviously not white wife, yet she hates immigrants and especially latins.
Laurie Carver
May 14 2020 at 1:06pm
Lord of the Flies is often taken as warning about the evils of anarchism, when to my mind it’s pretty obviously warning about the evils of *archism*. Incidentally, Golding’s daughter has explicitly rebutted the personal claims in this article about him.
https://www.theguardian.com/books/2020/may/12/william-golding-did-not-smack-his-kids
Tom Larkin
May 14 2020 at 2:13pm
I certainly have noticed how there are many more people around in our neighborhood (in Dallas), and a very great deal more walking. I personally am walking at least twice a day. There is a lot of very positive personal interaction – way, way more than there was before all this. I’ve had many nice conversations with people on our block I had never talked to before. No one walks past without at least a smile, waving and saying hello.
A small group of us have started “front yard happy hour” three or so nights a week – sitting 6 to 8 feet apart in the front yard with a beverage visiting and saying hello to everyone walking or driving past (it’s a pretty slow street :-). Several times folks have brought their own chairs and joined us. I had noticed over the past 20 years or so a real loss of “neighborliness”. Truly wonderful to see it making a bit of a comeback. I am really hoping we can all keep it going when we get things restarted.
Daniel Kuehn
May 14 2020 at 3:36pm
I generally agree with her two. This whole two months I don’t think I’ve come across any behavior I’d describe as nasty (assuming we’re not including online commentary and sticking to “real” life!). But I did find this a little odd, because this seems like it’s precisely the sort of apocalyptic/assume the worst narrative she’s trying to debunk. (Perhaps this was a part of it that you didn’t agree with):
I think news media to a certain extent follows an “if it bleeds it leads” formula, but not all the time, and definitely not out of an interest in “training” us to be enemies.
Daniel Kuehn
May 14 2020 at 3:36pm
*agree with her too.
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David Seltzer
May 14 2020 at 5:30pm
David, My experience is similar to yours. Because of the vitriol in the media, I’ve stopped watching or commenting. What I find curious about Ayn Rand’s philosophy, to wit, one is not obligated to provide for another, the choice to be charitable is rather remarkable. There is virtue in choice. There is no virtue in coercion.
JK Brown
May 14 2020 at 6:25pm
By the time I got to the 3rd paragraph of the excerpt, I thought of this from a Free Thoughts interview [How Mao Broke China (with Frank Dikötter) Oct 2019]
We’ve not seen that from fellow citizens, but the government edicts seem to approach this dehumanization. We should probably say they juvenilize the citizens with a “because the experts said so” response to any attempt to question the limitations being put on rights of the People. A lot of this is because the restrictions are based on “common sense” and not a body of scientific evidence to show their preference over other common sense ideas. The protesting of the restrictions does show that some will not go easily into the corrals.
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