Two years ago, I posted a poem that appears at the end of a movie about actress and inventor Hedy Lamarr. The poem was written by Kent M. Keith and Ms. Lamarr liked reading it to her children. A friend and I were talking about it on the phone and we both found needed inspiration from it during these trying times. Here it is in full:
The Paradoxical Commandments
People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered.
Love them anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Do good anyway.
If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.
Succeed anyway.
The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.
The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds.
Think big anyway.
People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs.
Fight for a few underdogs anyway.
What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
Build anyway.
People really need help but may attack you if you do help them.
Help people anyway.
Give the world the best you have and you’ll get kicked in the teeth.
Give the world the best you have anyway.
–Kent M. Keith
It’s all relevant today and what you find relevant will vary from person to person. For many people, though, the third-last segment is probably particularly important.
READER COMMENTS
Lawrence
Apr 17 2020 at 8:23am
As I read this, I can’t help but think that it resembles the more recent advice embodies in Jordan Peterson’s book, “12 Rules for Life.” Thanks for sharing.
Steve Brecher
Apr 17 2020 at 12:02pm
Ms. Lamarr’s professional surname ends in a double-r.
David Henderson
Apr 17 2020 at 12:56pm
Thanks, Steve. That damn autocorrect! Change made.
Corrie Foos
Apr 18 2020 at 3:50pm
Thanks for sharing these word; I will keep them near me for inspiration and solace. Another poem I find inspirational at times like this is “If” by Kipling. Begs the question if individual life struggles have changed much over the generations. It’s not what happens to us but what we do about it that matters.
Charles F Lindsey
Apr 20 2020 at 6:53pm
Well . . . since her youngest child was 21 years old when this was first published, maybe that’s not quite right, even if it was put into a movie. But it’s a magnificent set of maxims.
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