Part I
Of the Propriety of Action
Consisting of Three Sections
Section I
Of the Sense of Propriety
Chap. I
Of Sympathy
How selfish soever man may be supposed, there are evidently
some principles in his nature, which interest him in the fortune
of others, and render their happiness necessary to him, though he
derives nothing from it except the pleasure of seeing it. Of this
kind is pity or compassion, the emotion which we feel for the
misery of others, when we either see it, or are made to conceive
it in a very lively manner. That we often derive sorrow from the
sorrow of others, is a matter of fact too obvious to require any
instances to prove it; for this sentiment, like all the other
original passions of human nature, is by no means confined to the
virtuous and humane, though they perhaps may feel it with the
most exquisite sensibility. The greatest ruffian, the most
hardened violator of the laws of society, is not altogether
without it.
As we have no immediate experience of what other men feel, we
can form no idea of the manner in which they are affected, but by
conceiving what we ourselves should feel in the like situation.
Though our brother is upon the rack, as long as we ourselves are
at our ease, our senses will never inform us of what he suffers.
They never did, and never can, carry us beyond our own person,
and it is by the imagination only that we can form any conception
of what are his sensations. Neither can that faculty help us to
this any other way, than by representing to us what would be our
own, if we were in his case. It is the impressions of our own
senses only, not those of his, which our imaginations copy. By
the imagination we place ourselves in his situation, we conceive
ourselves enduring all the same torments, we enter as it were
into his body, and become in some measure the same person with
him, and thence form some idea of his sensations, and even feel
something which, though weaker in degree, is not altogether
unlike them. His agonies, when they are thus brought home to
ourselves, when we have thus adopted and made them our own, begin
at last to affect us, and we then tremble and shudder at the
thought of what he feels. For as to be in pain or distress of any
kind excites the most excessive sorrow, so to conceive or to
imagine that we are in it, excites some degree of the same
emotion, in proportion to the vivacity or dulness of the
conception.
That this is the source of our fellow-feeling for the misery
of others, that it is by changing places in fancy with the
sufferer, that we come either to conceive or to be affected by
what he feels, may be demonstrated by many obvious observations,
if it should not be thought sufficiently evident of itself. When
we see a stroke aimed and just ready to fall upon the leg or arm
of another person, we naturally shrink and draw back our own leg
or our own arm; and when it does fall, we feel it in some
measure, and are hurt by it as well as the sufferer. The mob,
when they are gazing at a dancer on the slack rope, naturally
writhe and twist and balance their own bodies, as they see him
do, and as they feel that they themselves must do if in his
situation. Persons of delicate fibres and a weak constitution of
body complain, that in looking on the sores and ulcers which are
exposed by beggars in the streets, they are apt to feel an
itching or uneasy sensation in the correspondent part of their
own bodies. The horror which they conceive at the misery of those
wretches affects that particular part in themselves more than any
other; because that horror arises from conceiving what they
themselves would suffer, if they really were the wretches whom
they are looking upon, and if that particular part in themselves
was actually affected in the same miserable manner. The very
force of this conception is sufficient, in their feeble frames,
to produce that itching or uneasy sensation complained of. Men of
the most robust make, observe that in looking upon sore eyes they
often feel a very sensible soreness in their own, which proceeds
from the same reason; that organ being in the strongest man more
delicate, than any other part of the body is in the weakest.
Neither is it those circumstances only, which create pain or
sorrow, that call forth our fellow-feeling. Whatever is the
passion which arises from any object in the person principally
concerned, an analogous emotion springs up, at the thought of his
situation, in the breast of every attentive spectator. Our joy
for the deliverance of those heroes of tragedy or romance who
interest us, is as sincere as our grief for their distress, and
our fellow-feeling with their misery is not more real than that
with their happiness. We enter into their gratitude towards those
faithful friends who did not desert them in their difficulties;
and we heartily go along with their resentment against those
perfidious traitors who injured, abandoned, or deceived them. In
every passion of which the mind of man is susceptible, the
emotions of the by-stander always correspond to hat, by bringing
the case home to himself, he imagines should be the sentiments of
the sufferer.
Pity and compassion are words appropriated to signify our
fellow-feeling with the sorrow of others. Sympathy, though its
meaning was, perhaps, originally the same, may now, however,
without much impropriety, be made use of to denote our
fellow-feeling with any passion whatever.
Upon some occasions sympathy may seen to arise merely from
the view of a certain emotion in another person. The passions,
upon some occasions, may seem to be transfused from one man to
another, instantaneously and antecedent to any knowledge of what
excited them in the person principally concerned. Grief and joy,
for example, strongly expressed in the look and gestures of any
one, at once affect the spectator with some degree of a like
painful or agreeable emotion. A smiling face is, to every body
that sees it, a cheerful object; as a sorrowful countenance, on
the other hand, is a melancholy one.
This, however, does not hold universally, or with regard to
every passion. There are some passions of which the expressions
excite no sort of sympathy, but before we are acquainted with
what gave occasion to them, serve rather to disgust and provoke
us against them. The furious behaviour of an angry man is more
likely to exasperate us against himself than against his enemies.
As we are unacquainted with his provocation, we cannot bring his
case home to ourselves, nor conceive any thing like the passions
which it excites. But we plainly see what is the situation of
those with whom he is angry, and to what violence they may be
exposed from so enraged an adversary. We readily, therefore,
sympathize with their fear or resentment, and are immediately
disposed to take part against the man from whom they appear to be
in so much danger.
If the very appearances of grief and joy inspire us with some
degree of the like emotions, it is because they suggest to us the
general idea of some good or bad fortune that has befallen the
person in whom we observe them: and in these passions this is
sufficient to have some little influence upon us. The effects of
grief and joy terminate in the person who feels those emotions,
of which the expressions do not, like those of resentment,
suggest to us the idea of any other person for whom we are
concerned, and whose interests are opposite to his. The general
idea of good or bad fortune, therefore, creates some concern for
the person who has met with it, but the general idea of
provocation excites no sympathy with the anger of the man who has
received it. Nature, it seems, teaches us to be more averse to
enter into this passion, and, till informed of its cause, to be
disposed rather to take part against it.
Even our sympathy with the grief or joy of another, before we
are informed of the cause of either, is always extremely
imperfect. General lamentations, which express nothing but the
anguish of the sufferer, create rather a curiosity to inquire
into his situation, along with some disposition to sympathize
with him, than any actual sympathy that is very sensible. The
first question which we ask is, What has befallen you? Till this
be answered, though we are uneasy both from the vague idea of his
misfortune, and still more from torturing ourselves with
conjectures about what it may be, yet our fellow-feeling is not
very considerable.
Sympathy, therefore, does not arise so much from the view of
the passion, as from that of the situation which excites it. We
sometimes feel for another, a passion of which he himself seems
to be altogether incapable; because, when we put ourselves in his
case, that passion arises in our breast from the imagination,
though it does not in his from the reality. We blush for the
impudence and rudeness of another, though he himself appears to
have no sense of the impropriety of his own behaviour; because we
cannot help feeling with what confusion we ourselves should be
covered, had we behaved in so absurd a manner.
Of all the calamities to which the condition of mortality
exposes mankind, the loss of reason appears, to those who have
the least spark of humanity, by far the most dreadful, and they
behold that last stage of human wretchedness with deeper
commiseration than any other. But the poor wretch, who is in it,
laughs and sings perhaps, and is altogether insensible of his own
misery. The anguish which humanity feels, therefore, at the sight
of such an object, cannot be the reflection of any sentiment of
the sufferer. The compassion of the spectator must arise
altogether from the consideration of what he himself would feel
if he was reduced to the same unhappy situation, and, what
perhaps is impossible, was at the same time able to regard it
with his present reason and judgment.
What are the pangs of a mother, when she hears the moanings
of her infant that during the agony of disease cannot express
what it feels? In her idea of what it suffers, she joins, to its
real helplessness, her own consciousness of that helplessness,
and her own terrors for the unknown consequences of its disorder;
and out of all these, forms, for her own sorrow, the most
complete image of misery and distress. The infant, however, feels
only the uneasiness of the present instant, which can never be
great. With regard to the future, it is perfectly secure, and in
its thoughtlessness and want of foresight, possesses an antidote
against fear and anxiety, the great tormentors of the human
breast, from which reason and philosophy will, in vain, attempt
to defend it, when it grows up to a man.
We sympathize even with the dead, and overlooking what is of
real importance in their situation, that awful futurity which
awaits them, we are chiefly affected by those circumstances which
strike our senses, but can have no influence upon their
happiness. It is miserable, we think, to be deprived of the light
of the sun; to be shut out from life and conversation; to be laid
in the cold grave, a prey to corruption and the reptiles of the
earth; to be no more thought of in this world, but to be
obliterated, in a little time, from the affections, and almost
from the memory, of their dearest friends and relations. Surely,
we imagine, we can never feel too much for those who have
suffered so dreadful a calamity. The tribute of our
fellow-feeling seems doubly due to them now, when they are in
danger of being forgot by every body; and, by the vain honours
which we pay to their memory, we endeavour, for our own misery,
artificially to keep alive our melancholy remembrance of their
misfortune. That our sympathy can afford them no consolation
seems to be an addition to their calamity; and to think that all
we can do is unavailing, and that, what alleviates all other
distress, the regret, the love, and the lamentations of their
friends, can yield no comfort to them, serves only to exasperate
our sense of their misery. The happiness of the dead, however,
most assuredly, is affected by none of these circumstances; nor
is it the thought of these things which can ever disturb the
profound security of their repose. The idea of that dreary and
endless melancholy, which the fancy naturally ascribes to their
condition, arises altogether from our joining to the change which
has been produced upon them, our own consciousness of that
change, from our putting ourselves in their situation, and from
our lodging, if I may be allowed to say so, our own living souls
in their inanimated bodies, and thence conceiving what would be
our emotions in this case. It is from this very illusion of the
imagination, that the foresight of our own dissolution is so
terrible to us, and that the idea of those circumstances, which
undoubtedly can give us no pain when we are dead, makes us
miserable while we are alive. And from thence arises one of the
most important principles in human nature, the dread of death,
the great poison to the happiness, but the great restraint upon
the injustice of mankind, which, while it afflicts and mortifies
the individual, guards and protects the society.
Chap. II
Of the Pleasure of mutual Sympathy
But whatever may be the cause of sympathy, or however it may
be excited, nothing pleases us more than to observe in other men
a fellow-feeling with all the emotions of our own breast; nor are
we ever so much shocked as by the appearance of the contrary.
Those who are fond of deducing all our sentiments from certain
refinements of self-love, think themselves at no loss to account,
according to their own principles, both for this pleasure and
this pain. Man, say they, conscious of his own weakness, and of
the need which he has for the assistance of others, rejoices
whenever he observes that they adopt his own passions, because he
is then assured of that assistance; and grieves whenever he
observes the contrary, because he is then assured of their
opposition. But both the pleasure and the pain are always felt so
instantaneously, and often upon such frivolous occasions, that it
seems evident that neither of them can be derived from any such
self-interested consideration. A man is mortified when, after
having endeavoured to divert the company, he looks round and sees
that nobody laughs at his jests but himself. On the contrary, the
mirth of the company is highly agreeable to him, and he regards
this correspondence of their sentiments with his own as the
greatest applause.
Neither does his pleasure seem to arise altogether from the
additional vivacity which his mirth may receive from sympathy
with theirs, nor his pain from the disappointment he meets with
when he misses this pleasure; though both the one and the other,
no doubt, do in some measure. When we have read a book or poem so
often that we can no longer find any amusement in reading it by
ourselves, we can still take pleasure in reading it to a
companion. To him it has all the graces of novelty; we enter into
the surprise and admiration which it naturally excites in him,
but which it is no longer capable of exciting in us; we consider
all the ideas which it presents rather in the light in which they
appear to him, than in that in which they appear to ourselves,
and we are amused by sympathy with his amusement which thus
enlivens our own. On the contrary, we should be vexed if he did
not seem to be entertained with it, and we could no longer take
any pleasure in reading it to him. It is the same case here. The
mirth of the company, no doubt, enlivens our own mirth, and their
silence, no doubt, disappoints us. But though this may contribute
both to the pleasure which we derive from the one, and to the
pain which we feel from the other, it is by no means the sole
cause of either; and this correspondence of the sentiments of
others with our own appears to be a cause of pleasure, and the
want of it a cause of pain, which cannot be accounted for in this
manner. The sympathy, which my friends express with my joy,
might, indeed, give me pleasure by enlivening that joy: but that
which they express with my grief could give me none, if it served
only to enliven that grief. Sympathy, however, enlivens joy and
alleviates grief. It enlivens joy by presenting another source of
satisfaction; and it alleviates grief by insinuating into the
heart almost the only agreeable sensation which it is at that
time capable of receiving.
It is to be observed accordingly, that we are still more
anxious to communicate to our friends our disagreeable than our
agreeable passions, that we derive still more satisfaction from
their sympathy with the former than from that with the latter,
and that we are still more shocked by the want of it.
How are the unfortunate relieved when they have found out a
person to whom they can communicate the cause of their sorrow?
Upon his sympathy they seem to disburthen themselves of a part of
their distress: he is not improperly said to share it with them.
He not only feels a sorrow of the same kind with that which they
feel, but as if he had derived a part of it to himself, what he
feels seems to alleviate the weight of what they feel. Yet by
relating their misfortunes they in some measure renew their
grief. They awaken in their memory the remembrance of those
circumstances which occasioned their affliction. Their tears
accordingly flow faster than before, and they are apt to abandon
themselves to all the weakness of sorrow. They take pleasure,
however, in all this, and, it is evident, are sensibly relieved
by it; because the sweetness of his sympathy more than
compensates the bitterness of that sorrow, which, in order to
excite this sympathy, they had thus enlivened and renewed. The
cruelest insult, on the contrary, which can be offered to the
unfortunate, is to appear to make light of their calamities. To
seem not to be affected with the joy of our companions is but
want of politeness; but not to wear a serious countenance when
they tell us their afflictions, is real and gross inhumanity.
Love is an agreeable; resentment, a disagreeable passion; and
accordingly we are not half so anxious that our friends should
adopt our friendships, as that they should enter into our
resentments. We can forgive them though they seem to be little
affected with the favours which we may have received, but lose
all patience if they seem indifferent about the injuries which
may have been done to us: nor are we half so angry with them for
not entering into our gratitude, as for not sympathizing with our
resentment. They can easily avoid being friends to our friends,
but can hardly avoid being enemies to those with whom we are at
variance. We seldom resent their being at enmity with the first,
though upon that account we may sometimes affect to make an
awkward quarrel with them; but we quarrel with them in good
earnest if they live in friendship with the last. The agreeable
passions of love and joy can satisfy and support the heart
without any auxiliary pleasure. The bitter and painful emotions
of grief and resentment more strongly require the healing
consolation of sympathy.
As the person who is principally interested in any event is
pleased with our sympathy, and hurt by the want of it, so we,
too, seem to be pleased when we are able to sympathize with him,
and to be hurt when we are unable to do so. We run not only to
congratulate the successful, but to condole with the afflicted;
and the pleasure which we find in the conversation of one whom in
all the passions of his heart we can entirely sympathize with,
seems to do more than compensate the painfulness of that sorrow
with which the view of his situation affects us. On the contrary,
it is always disagreeable to feel that we cannot sympathize with
him, and instead of being pleased with this exemption from
sympathetic pain, it hurts us to find that we cannot share his
uneasiness. If we hear a person loudly lamenting his misfortunes,
which, however, upon bringing the case home to ourselves, we
feel, can produce no such violent effect upon us, we are shocked
at his grief; and, because we cannot enter into it, call it
pusillanimity and weakness. It gives us the spleen, on the other
hand, to see another too happy or too much elevated, as we call
it, with any little piece of good fortune. We are disobliged even
with his joy; and, because we cannot go along with it, call it
levity and folly. We are even put out of humour if our companion
laughs louder or longer at a joke than we think it deserves; that
is, than we feel that we ourselves could laugh at it.
Chap. III
Of the manner in which we judge of the propriety or impropriety
of the affections of other men, by their concord or dissonance
with our own.
When the original passions of the person principally
concerned are in perfect concord with the sympathetic emotions of
the spectator, they necessarily appear to this last just and
proper, and suitable to their objects; and, on the contrary,
when, upon bringing the case home to himself, he finds that they
do not coincide with what he feels, they necessarily appear to
him unjust and improper, and unsuitable to the causes which
excite them. To approve of the passions of another, therefore, as
suitable to their objects, is the same thing as to observe that
we entirely sympathize with them; and not to approve of them as
such, is the same thing as to observe that we do not entirely
sympathize with them. The man who resents the injuries that have
been done to me, and observes that I resent them precisely as he
does, necessarily approves of my resentment. The man whose
sympathy keeps time to my grief, cannot but admit the
reasonableness of my sorrow. He who admires the same poem, or the
same picture, and admires them exactly as I do, must surely allow
the justness of my admiration. He who laughs at the same joke,
and laughs along with me, cannot well deny the propriety of my
laughter. On the contrary, the person who, upon these different
occasions, either feels no such emotion as that which I feel, or
feels none that bears any proportion to mine, cannot avoid
disapproving my sentiments on account of their dissonance with
his own. If my animosity goes beyond what the indignation of my
friend can correspond to; if my grief exceeds what his most
tender compassion can go along with; if my admiration is either
too high or too low to tally with his own; if I laugh loud and
heartily when he only smiles, or, on the contrary, only smile
when he laughs loud and heartily; in all these cases, as soon as
he comes from considering the object, to observe how I am
affected by it, according as there is more or less disproportion
between his sentiments and mine, I must incur a greater or less
degree of his disapprobation: and upon all occasions his own
sentiments are the standards and measures by which he judges of
mine.
To approve of another man's opinions is to adopt those
opinions, and to adopt them is to approve of them. If the same
arguments which convince you convince me likewise, I necessarily
approve of your conviction; and if they do not, I necessarily
disapprove of it: neither can I possibly conceive that I should
do the one without the other. To approve or disapprove,
therefore, of the opinions of others is acknowledged, by every
body, to mean no more than to observe their agreement or
disagreement with our own. But this is equally the case with
regard to our approbation or disapprobation of the sentiments or
passions of others.
There are, indeed, some cases in which we seem to approve
without any sympathy or correspondence of sentiments, and in
which, consequently, the sentiment of approbation would seem to
be different from the perception of this coincidence. A little
attention, however, will convince us that even in these cases our
approbation is ultimately founded upon a sympathy or
correspondence of this kind. I shall give an instance in things
of a very frivolous nature, because in them the judgments of
mankind are less apt to be perverted by wrong systems. We may
often approve of a jest, and think the laughter of the company
quite just and proper, though we ourselves do not laugh, because,
perhaps, we are in a grave humour, or happen to have our
attention engaged with other objects. We have learned, however,
from experience, what sort of pleasantry is upon most occasions
capable of making us laugh, and we observe that this is one of
that kind. We approve, therefore, of the laughter of the company,
and feel that it is natural and suitable to its object; because,
though in our present mood we cannot easily enter into it, we are
sensible that upon most occasions we should very heartily join in
it.
The same thing often happens with regard to all the other
passions. A stranger passes by us in the street with all the
marks of the deepest affliction; and we are immediately told that
he has just received the news of the death of his father. It is
impossible that, in this case, we should not approve of his
grief. Yet it may often happen, without any defect of humanity on
our part, that, so far from entering into the violence of his
sorrow, we should scarce conceive the first movements of concern
upon his account. Both he and his father, perhaps, are entirely
unknown to us, or we happen to be employed about other things,
and do not take time to picture out in our imagination the
different circumstances of distress which must occur to him. We
have learned, however, from experience, that such a misfortune
naturally excites such a degree of sorrow, and we know that if we
took time to consider his situation, fully and in all its parts,
we should, without doubt, most sincerely sympathize with him. It
is upon the consciousness of this conditional sympathy, that our
approbation of his sorrow is founded, even in those cases in
which that sympathy does not actually take place; and the general
rules derived from our preceding experience of what our
sentiments would commonly correspond with, correct upon this, as
upon many other occasions, the impropriety of our present
emotions.
The sentiment or affection of the heart from which any action
proceeds, and upon which its whole virtue or vice must ultimately
depend, may be considered under two different aspects, or in two
different relations; first, in relation to the cause which
excites it, or the motive which gives occasion to it; and
secondly, in relation to the end which it proposes, or the effect
which it tends to produce.
In the suitableness or unsuitableness, in the proportion or
disproportion which the affection seems to bear to the cause or
object which excites it, consists the propriety or impropriety,
the decency or ungracefulness of the consequent action.
In the beneficial or hurtful nature of the effects which the
affection aims at, or tends to produce, consists the merit or
demerit of the action, the qualities by which it is entitled to
reward, or is deserving of punishment.
Philosophers have, of late years, considered chiefly the
tendency of affections, and have given little attention to the
relation which they stand in to the cause which excites them. In
common life, however, when we judge of any person's conduct, and
of the sentiments which directed it, we constantly consider them
under both these aspects. When we blame in another man the
excesses of love, of grief, of resentment, we not only consider
the ruinous effects which they tend to produce, but the little
occasion which was given for them. The merit of his favourite, we
say, is not so great, his misfortune is not so dreadful, his
provocation is not so extraordinary, as to justify so violent a
passion. We should have indulged, we say; perhaps, have approved
of the violence of his emotion, had the cause been in any respect
proportioned to it.
When we judge in this manner of any affection, as
proportioned or disproportioned to the cause which excites it, it
is scarce possible that we should make use of any other rule or
canon but the correspondent affection in ourselves. If, upon
bringing the case home to our own breast, we find that the
sentiments which it gives occasion to, coincide and tally with
our own, we necessarily approve of them as proportioned and
suitable to their objects; if otherwise, we necessarily
disapprove of them, as extravagant and out of proportion.
Every faculty in one man is the measure by which he judges of
the like faculty in another. I judge of your sight by my sight,
of your ear by my ear, of your reason by my reason, of your
resentment by my resentment, of your love by my love. I neither
have, nor can have, any other way of judging about them.
Chap. IV
The same subject continued
We may judge of the propriety or impropriety of the
sentiments of another person by their correspondence or
disagreement with our own, upon two different occasions; either,
first, when the objects which excite them are considered without
any peculiar relation, either to ourselves or to the person whose
sentiments we judge of; or, secondly, when they are considered as
peculiarly affecting one or other of us.
1. With regard to those objects which are considered without
any peculiar relation either to ourselves or to the person whose
sentiments we judge of; wherever his sentiments entirely
correspond with our own, we ascribe to him the qualities of taste
and good judgment. The beauty of a plain, the greatness of a
mountain, the ornaments of a building, the expression of a
picture, the composition of a discourse, the conduct of a third
person, the proportions of different quantities and numbers, the
various appearances which the great machine of the universe is
perpetually exhibiting, with the secret wheels and springs which
product them; all the general subjects of science and taste, are
what we and our companion regard as having no peculiar relation
to either of us. We both look at them from the same point of
view, and we have no occasion for sympathy, or for that imaginary
change of situations from which it arises, in order to produce,
with regard to these, the most perfect harmony of sentiments and
affections. If, notwithstanding, we are often differently
affected, it arises either from the different degrees of
attention, which our different habits of life allow us to give
easily to the several parts of those complex objects, or from the
different degrees of natural acuteness in the faculty of the mind
to which they are addressed.
When the sentiments of our companion coincide with our own in
things of this kind, which are obvious and easy, and in which,
perhaps, we never found a single person who differed from us,
though we, no doubt, must approve of them, yet he seems to
deserve no praise or admiration on account of them. But when they
not only coincide with our own, but lead and direct our own; when
in forming them he appears to have attended to many things which
we had overlooked, and to have adjusted them to all the various
circumstances of their objects; we not only approve of them, but
wonder and are surprised at their uncommon and unexpected
acuteness and comprehensiveness, and he appears to deserve a very
high degree of admiration and applause. For approbation
heightened by wonder and surprise, constitutes the sentiment
which is properly called admiration, and of which applause is the
natural expression. The decision of the man who judges that
exquisite beauty is preferable to the grossest deformity, or that
twice two are equal to four, must certainly be approved of by all
the world, but will not, surely, be much admired. It is the acute
and delicate discernment of the man of taste, who distinguishes
the minute, and scarce perceptible differences of beauty and
deformity; it is the comprehensive accuracy of the experienced
mathematician, who unravels, with ease, the most intricate and
perplexed proportions; it is the great leader in science and
taste, the man who directs and conducts our own sentiments, the
extent and superior justness of whose talents astonish us with
wonder and surprise, who excites our admiration, and seems to
deserve our applause: and upon this foundation is grounded the
greater part of the praise which is bestowed upon what are called
the intellectual virtues.
The utility of those qualities, it may be thought, is what
first recommends them to us; and, no doubt, the consideration of
this, when we come to attend to it, gives them a new value.
Originally, however, we approve of another man's judgment, not as
something useful, but as right, as accurate, as agreeable to
truth and reality: and it is evident we attribute those qualities
to it for no other reason but because we find that it agrees with
our own. Taste, in the same manner, is originally approved of,
not as useful, but as just, as delicate, and as precisely suited
to its object. The idea of the utility of all qualities of this
kind, is plainly an after-thought, and not what first recommends
them to our approbation.
2. With regard to those objects, which affect in a particular
manner either ourselves or the person whose sentiments we judge
of, it is at once more difficult to preserve this harmony and
correspondence, and at the same time, vastly more important. My
companion does not naturally look upon the misfortune that has
befallen me, or the injury that has been done me, from the same
point of view in which I consider them. They affect me much more
nearly. We do not view them from the same station, as we do a
picture, or a poem, or a system of philosophy, and are,
therefore, apt to be very differently affected by them. But I can
much more easily overlook the want of this correspondence of
sentiments with regard to such indifferent objects as concern
neither me nor my companion, than with regard to what interests
me so much as the misfortune that has befallen me, or the injury
that has been done me. Though you despise that picture, or that
poem, or even that system of philosophy, which I admire, there is
little danger of our quarrelling upon that account. Neither of us
can reasonably be much interested about them. They ought all of
them to be matters of great indifference to us both; so that,
though our opinions may be opposite, our affections may still be
very nearly the same. But it is quite otherwise with regard to
those objects by which either you or I are particularly affected.
Though your judgments in matters of speculation, though your
sentiments in matters of taste, are quite opposite to mine, I can
easily overlook this opposition; and if I have any degree of
temper, I may still find some entertainment in your conversation,
even upon those very subjects. But if you have either no
fellow-feeling for the misfortunes I have met with, or none that
bears any proportion to the grief which distracts me; or if you
have either no indignation at the injuries I have suffered, or
none that bears any proportion to the resentment which transports
me, we can no longer converse upon these subjects. We become
intolerable to one another. I can neither support your company,
nor you mine. You are confounded at my violence and passion, and
I am enraged at your cold insensibility and want of feeling.
In all such cases, that there may be some correspondence of
sentiments between the spectator and the person principally
concerned, the spectator must, first of all, endeavour, as much
as he can, to put himself in the situation of the other, and to
bring home to himself every little circumstance of distress which
can possibly occur to the sufferer. He must adopt the whole case
of his companion with all its minutest incidents; and strive to
render as perfect as possible, that imaginary change of situation
upon which his sympathy is founded.
After all this, however, the emotions of the spectator will
still be very apt to fall short of the violence of what is felt
by the sufferer. Mankind, though naturally sympathetic, never
conceive, for what has befallen another, that degree of passion
which naturally animates the person principally concerned. That
imaginary change of situation, upon which their sympathy is
founded, is but momentary. The thought of their own safety, the
thought that they themselves are not really the sufferers,
continually intrudes itself upon them; and though it does not
hinder them from conceiving a passion somewhat analogous to what
is felt by the sufferer, hinders them from conceiving any thing
that approaches to the same degree of violence. The person
principally concerned is sensible of this, and at the same time
passionately desires a more complete sympathy. He longs for that
relief which nothing can afford him but the entire concord of the
affections of the spectators with his own. To see the emotions of
their hearts, in every respect, beat time to his own, in the
violent and disagreeable passions, constitutes his sole
consolation. But he can only hope to obtain this by lowering his
passion to that pitch, in which the spectators are capable of
going along with him. He must flatten, if I may be allowed to say
so, the sharpness of its natural tone, in order to reduce it to
harmony and concord with the emotions of those who are about him.
What they feel, will, indeed, always be, in some respects,
different from what he feels, and compassion can never be exactly
the same with original sorrow; because the secret consciousness
that the change of situations, from which the sympathetic
sentiment arises, is but imaginary, not only lowers it in degree,
but, in some measure, varies it in kind, and gives it a quite
different modification. These two sentiments, however, may, it is
evident, have such a correspondence with one another, as is
sufficient for the harmony of society. Though they will never be
unisons, they may be concords, and this is all that is wanted or
required.
In order to produce this concord, as nature teaches the
spectators to assume the circumstances of the person principally
concerned, so she teaches this last in some measure to assume
those of the spectators. As they are continually placing
themselves in his situation, and thence conceiving emotions
similar to what he feels; so he is as constantly placing himself
in theirs, and thence conceiving some degree of that coolness
about his own fortune, with which he is sensible that they will
view it. As they are constantly considering what they themselves
would feel, if they actually were the sufferers, so he is as
constantly led to imagine in what manner he would be affected if
he was only one of the spectators of his own situation. As their
sympathy makes them look at it, in some measure, with his eyes,
so his sympathy makes him look at it, in some measure, with
theirs, especially when in their presence and acting under their
observation: and as the reflected passion, which he thus
conceives, is much weaker than the original one, it necessarily
abates the violence of what he felt before he came into their
presence, before he began to recollect in what manner they would
be affected by it, and to view his situation in this candid and
impartial light.
The mind, therefore, is rarely so disturbed, but that the
company of a friend will restore it to some degree of
tranquillity and sedateness. The breast is, in some measure,
calmed and composed the moment we come into his presence. We are
immediately put in mind of the light in which he will view our
situation, and we begin to view it ourselves in the same light;
for the effect of sympathy is instantaneous. We expect less
sympathy from a common acquaintance than from a friend: we cannot
open to the former all those little circumstances which we can
unfold to the latter: we assume, therefore, more tranquillity
before him, and endeavour to fix our thoughts upon those general
outlines of our situation which he is willing to consider. We
expect still less sympathy from an assembly of strangers, and we
assume, therefore, still more tranquillity before them, and
always endeavour to bring down our passion to that pitch, which
the particular company we are in may be expected to go along
with. Nor is this only an assumed appearance: for if we are at
all masters of ourselves, the presence of a mere acquaintance
will really compose us, still more than that of a friend; and
that of an assembly of strangers still more than that of an
acquaintance.
Society and conversation, therefore, are the most powerful
remedies for restoring the mind to its tranquillity, if, at any
time, it has unfortunately lost it; as well as the best
preservatives of that equal and happy temper, which is so
necessary to self-satisfaction and enjoyment. Men of retirement
and speculation, who are apt to sit brooding at home over either
grief or resentment, though they may often have more humanity,
more generosity, and a nicer sense of honour, yet seldom possess
that equality of temper which is so common among men of the
world.
Chap. V
Of the amiable and respectable virtues
Upon these two different efforts, upon that of the spectator
to enter into the sentiments of the person principally concerned,
and upon that of the person principally concerned, to bring down
his emotions to what the spectator can go along with, are founded
two different sets of virtues. The soft, the gentle, the amiable
virtues, the virtues of candid condescension and indulgent
humanity, are founded upon the one: the great, the awful and
respectable, the virtues of self-denial, of self-government, of
that command of the passions which subjects all the movements of
our nature to what our own dignity and honour, and the propriety
of our own conduct require, take their origin from the other.
How amiable does he appear to be, whose sympathetic heart
seems to reecho all the sentiments of those with whom he
converses, who grieves for their calamities, who resents their
injuries, and who rejoices at their good fortune! When we bring
home to ourselves the situation of his companions, we enter into
their gratitude, and feel what consolation they must derive from
the tender sympathy of so affectionate a friend. And for a
contrary reason, how disagreeable does he appear to be, whose
hard and obdurate heart feels for himself only, but is altogether
insensible to the happiness or misery of others! We enter, in
this case too, into the pain which his presence must give to
every mortal with whom he converses, to those especially with
whom we are most apt to sympathize, the unfortunate and the
injured.
On the other hand, what noble propriety and grace do we feel
in the conduct of those who, in their own case, exert that
recollection and self-command which constitute the dignity of
every passion, and which bring it down to what others can enter
into! We are disgusted with that clamorous grief, which, without
any delicacy, calls upon our compassion with sighs and tears and
importunate lamentations. But we reverence that reserved, that
silent and majestic sorrow, which discovers itself only in the
swelling of the eyes, in the quivering of the lips and cheeks,
and in the distant, but affecting, coldness of the whole
behaviour. It imposes the like silence upon us. We regard it with
respectful attention, and watch with anxious concern over our
whole behaviour, lest by any impropriety we should disturb that
concerted tranquillity, which it requires so great an effort to
support.
The insolence and brutality of anger, in the same manner,
when we indulge its fury without check or restraint, is, of all
objects, the most detestable. But we admire that noble and
generous resentment which governs its pursuit of the greatest
injuries, not by the rage which they are apt to excite in the
breast of the sufferer, but by the indignation which they
naturally call forth in that of the impartial spectator; which
allows no word, no gesture, to escape it beyond what this more
equitable sentiment would dictate; which never, even in thought,
attempts any greater vengeance, nor desires to inflict any
greater punishment, than what every indifferent person would
rejoice to see executed.
And hence it is, that to feel much for others and little for
ourselves, that to restrain our selfish, and to indulge our
benevolent affections, constitutes the perfection of human
nature; and can alone produce among mankind that harmony of
sentiments and passions in which consists their whole grace and
propriety. As to love our neighbour as we love ourselves is the
great law of Christianity, so it is the great precept of nature
to love ourselves only as we love our neighbour, or what comes to
the same thing, as our neighbour is capable of loving us.
As taste and good judgment, when they are considered as
qualities which deserve praise and admiration, are supposed to
imply a delicacy of sentiment and an acuteness of understanding
not commonly to be met with; so the virtues of sensibility and
self-command are not apprehended to consist in the ordinary, but
in the uncommon degrees of those qualities. The amiable virtue of
humanity requires, surely, a sensibility, much beyond what is
possessed by the rude vulgar of mankind. The great and exalted
virtue of magnanimity undoubtedly demands much more than that
degree of self-command, which the weakest of mortals is capable
of exerting. As in the common degree of the intellectual
qualities, there is no abilities; so in the common degree of the
moral, there is no virtue. Virtue is excellence, something
uncommonly great and beautiful, which rises far above what is
vulgar and ordinary. The amiable virtues consist in that degree
of sensibility which surprises by its exquisite and unexpected
delicacy and tenderness. The awful and respectable, in that
degree of self-command which astonishes by its amazing
superiority over the most ungovernable passions of human nature.
There is, in this respect, a considerable difference between
virtue and mere propriety; between those qualities and actions
which deserve to be admired and celebrated, and those which
simply deserve to be approved of. Upon many occasions, to act
with the most perfect propriety, requires no more than that
common and ordinary degree of sensibility or self-command which
the most worthless of mankind are possest of, and sometimes even
that degree is not necessary. Thus, to give a very low instance,
to eat when we are hungry, is certainly, upon ordinary occasions,
perfectly right and proper, and cannot miss being approved of as
such by every body. Nothing, however, could be more absurd than
to say it was virtuous.
On the contrary, there may frequently be a considerable
degree of virtue in those actions which fall short of the most
perfect propriety; because they may still approach nearer to
perfection than could well be expected upon occasions in which it
was so extremely difficult to attain it: and this is very often
the case upon those occasions which require the greatest
exertions of self-command. There are some situations which bear
so hard upon human nature, that the greatest degree of
self-government, which can belong to so imperfect a creature as
man, is not able to stifle, altogether, the voice of human
weakness, or reduce the violence of the passions to that pitch of
moderation, in which the impartial spectator can entirely enter
into them. Though in those cases, therefore, the behaviour of the
sufferer fall short of the most perfect propriety, it may still
deserve some applause, and even in a certain sense, may be
denominated virtuous. It may still manifest an effort of
generosity and magnanimity of which the greater part of men are
incapable; and though it fails of absolute perfection, it may be
a much nearer approximation towards perfection, than what, upon
such trying occasions, is commonly either to be found or to be
expected.
In cases of this kind, when we are determining the degree of
blame or applause which seems due to any action, we very
frequently make use of two different standards. The first is the
idea of complete propriety and perfection, which, in those
difficult situations, no human conduct ever did, or ever can
come, up to; and in comparison with which the actions of all men
must for ever appear blameable and imperfect. The second is the
idea of that degree of proximity or distance from this complete
perfection, which the actions of the greater part of men commonly
arrive at. Whatever goes beyond this degree, how far soever it
may be removed from absolute perfection, seems to deserve
applause; and whatever falls short of it, to deserve blame.
It is in the same manner that we judge of the productions of
all the arts which address themselves to the imagination. When a
critic examines the work of any of the great masters in poetry or
painting, he may sometimes examine it by an idea of perfection,
in his own mind, which neither that nor any other human work will
ever come up to; and as long as he compares it with this
standard, he can see nothing in it but faults and imperfections.
But when he comes to consider the rank which it ought to hold
among other works of the same kind, he necessarily compares it
with a very different standard, the common degree of excellence
which is usually attained in this particular art; and when he
judges of it by this new measure, it may often appear to deserve
the highest applause, upon account of its approaching much nearer
to perfection than the greater part of those works which can be
brought into competition with it.
Section II
Of the Degrees of the different Passions which are consistent
with Propriety
Introduction
The propriety of every passion excited by objects peculiarly
related to ourselves, the pitch which the spectator can go along
with, must lie, it is evident, in a certain mediocrity. If the
passion is too high, or if it is too low, he cannot enter into
it. Grief and resentment for private misfortunes and injuries may
easily, for example, be too high, and in the greater part of
mankind they are so. They may likewise, though this more rarely
happens, be too low. We denominate the excess, weakness and fury:
and we call the defect stupidity, insensibility, and want of
spirit. We can enter into neither of them, but are astonished and
confounded to see them.
This mediocrity, however, in which the point of propriety
consists, is different in different passions. It is high in some,
and low in others. There are some passions which it is indecent
to express very strongly, even upon those occasions, in which it
is acknowledged that we cannot avoid feeling them in the highest
degree. And there are others of which the strongest expressions
are upon many occasions extremely graceful, even though the
passions themselves do not, perhaps, arise so necessarily. The
first are those passions with which, for certain reasons, there
is little or no sympathy: the second are those with which, for
other reasons, there is the greatest. And if we consider all the
different passions of human nature, we shall find that they are
regarded as decent, or indecent, just in proportion as mankind
are more or less disposed to sympathize with them.
Chap. I
Of the Passions which take their origin from the body
1. It is indecent to express any strong degree of those
passions which arise from a certain situation or disposition of
the body; because the company, not being in the same disposition,
cannot be expected to sympathize with them. Violent hunger, for
example, though upon many occasions not only natural, but
unavoidable, is always indecent, and to eat voraciously is
universally regarded as a piece of ill manners. There is,
however, some degree of sympathy, even with hunger. It is
agreeable to see our companions eat with a good appetite, and all
expressions of loathing are offensive. The disposition of body
which is habitual to a man in health, makes his stomach easily
keep time, if I may be allowed so coarse an expression, with the
one, and not with the other. We can sympathize with the distress
it in the which excessive hunger occasions when we read the
description of journal of a siege, or of a sea voyage. We imagine
ourselves in the situation of the sufferers, and thence readily
conceive the grief, the fear and consternation, which must
necessarily distract them. We feel, ourselves, some degree of
those passions, and therefore sympathize with them: but as we do
not grow hungry by reading the description, we cannot properly,
even in this case, be said to sympathize with their hunger.
It is the same case with the passion by which Nature unites
the two sexes. Though naturally the most furious of all the
passions, all strong expressions of it are upon every occasion
indecent, even between persons in whom its most complete
indulgence is acknowledged by all laws, both human and divine, to
be perfectly innocent. There seems, however, to be some degree of
sympathy even with this passion. To talk to a woman as we would
to a man is improper: it is expected that their company should
inspire us with more gaiety, more pleasantry, and more attention;
and an intire insensibility to the fair sex, renders a man
contemptible in some measure even to the men.
Such is our aversion for all the appetites which take their
origin from the body: all strong expressions of them are
loathsome and disagreeable. According to some ancient
philosophers, these are the passions which we share in common
with the brutes, and which having no connexion with the
characteristical qualities of human nature, are upon that account
beneath its dignity. But there are many other passions which we
share in common with the brutes, such as resentment, natural
affection, even gratitude, which do not, upon that account,
appear to be so brutal. The true cause of the peculiar disgust
which we conceive for the appetites of the body when we see them
in other men, is that we cannot enter into them. To the person
himself who feels them, as soon as they are gratified, the object
that excited them ceases to be agreeable: even its presence often
becomes offensive to him; he looks round to no purpose for the
charm which transported him the moment before, and he can now as
little enter into his own passion as another person. When we have
dined, we order the covers to be removed; and we should treat in
the same manner the objects of the most ardent and passionate
desires, if they were the objects of no other passions but those
which take their origin from the body.
In the command of those appetites of the body consists that
virtue which is properly called temperance. To restrain them
within those bounds, which regard to health and fortune
prescribes, is the part of prudence. But to confine them within
those limits, which grace, which propriety, which delicacy, and
modesty require, is the office of temperance.
2. It is for the same reason that to cry out with bodily
pain, how intolerable soever, appears always unmanly and
unbecoming. There is, however, a good deal of sympathy even with
bodily pain. If, as has already been observed, I see a stroke
aimed, and just ready to fall upon the leg, or arm, of another
person, I naturally shrink and draw back my own leg, or my own
arm: and when it does fall, I feel it in some measure, and am
hurt by it as well as the sufferer. My hurt, however, is, no
doubt, excessively slight, and, upon that account, if he makes
any violent out-cry, as I cannot go along with him, I never fail
to despise him. And this is the case of all the passions which
take their origin from the body: they excite either no sympathy
at all, or such a degree of it, as is altogether disproportioned
to the violence of what is felt by the sufferer.
It is quite otherwise with those passions which take their
origin from the imagination. The frame of my body can be but
little affected by the alterations which are brought about upon
that of my companion: but my imagination is more ductile, and
more readily assumes, if I may say so, the shape and
configuration of the imaginations of those with whom I am
familiar. A disappointment in love, or ambition, will, upon this
account, call forth more sympathy than the greatest bodily evil.
Those passions arise altogether from the imagination. The person
who has lost his whole fortune, if he is in health, feels nothing
in his body. What he suffers is from the imagination only, which
represents to him the loss of his dignity, neglect from his
friends, contempt from his enemies, dependance, want, and misery,
coming fast upon him; and we sympathize with him more strongly
upon this account, because our imaginations can more readily
mould themselves upon his imagination, than our bodies can mould
themselves upon his body.
The loss of a leg may generally be regarded as a more real
calamity than the loss of a mistress. It would be a ridiculous
tragedy, however, of which the catastrophe was to turn upon a
loss of that kind. A misfortune of the other kind, how frivolous
soever it may appear to be, has given occasion to many a fine
one.
Nothing is so soon forgot as pain. The moment it is gone the
whole agony of it is over, and the thought of it can no longer
give us any sort of disturbance. We ourselves cannot then enter
into the anxiety and anguish which we had before conceived. An
unguarded word from a friend will occasion a more durable
uneasiness. The agony which this creates is by no means over with
the word. What at first disturbs us is not the object of the
senses, but the idea of the imagination. As it is an idea,
therefore, which occasions our uneasiness, till time and other
accidents have in some measure effaced it from our memory, the
imagination continues to fret and rankle within, from the thought
of it.
Pain never calls forth any very lively sympathy unless it is
accompanied with danger. We sympathize with the fear, though not
with the agony of the sufferer. Fear, however, is a passion
derived altogether from the imagination, which represents, with
an uncertainty and fluctuation that increases our anxiety, not
what we really feel, but what we may hereafter possibly suffer.
The gout or the tooth-ach, though exquisitely painful, excite
very little sympathy; more dangerous diseases, though accompanied
with very little pain, excite the highest.
Some people faint and grow sick at the sight of a chirurgical
operation, and that bodily pain which is occasioned by tearing
the flesh, seems, in them, to excite the most excessive sympathy.
We conceive in a much more lively and distinct manner the pain
which proceeds from an external cause, than we do that which
arises from an internal disorder. I can scarce form an idea of
the agonies of my neighbour when he is tortured with the gout, or
the stone; but I have the clearest conception of what he must
suffer from an incision, a wound, or a fracture. The chief cause,
however, why such objects produce such violent effects upon us,
is their novelty. One who has been witness to a dozen
dissections, and as many amputations, sees, ever after, all
operations of this kind with great indifference, and often with
perfect insensibility. Though we have read or seen represented
more than five hundred tragedies, we shall seldom feel so entire
an abatement of our sensibility to the objects which they
represent to us.
In some of the Greek tragedies there is an attempt to excite
compassion, by the representation of the agonies of bodily pain.
Philoctetes cries out and faints from the extremity of his
sufferings. Hippolytus and Hercules are both introduced as
expiring under the severest tortures, which, it seems, even the
fortitude of Hercules was incapable of supporting. In all these
cases, however, it is not the pain which interests us, but some
other circumstances. It is not the sore foot, but the solitude,
of Philoctetes which affects us, and diffuses over that charming
tragedy, that romantic wildness, which is so agreeable to the
imagination. The agonies of Hercules and Hippolytus are
interesting only because we foresee that death is to be the
consequence. If those heroes were to recover, we should think the
representation of their sufferings perfectly ridiculous. What a
tragedy would that be of which the distress consisted in a colic.
Yet no pain is more exquisite. These attempts to excite
compassion by the representation of bodily pain, may be regarded
as among the greatest breaches of decorum of which the Greek
theatre has set the example.
The little sympathy which we feel with bodily pain is the
foundation of the propriety of constancy and patience in enduring
it. The man, who under the severest tortures allows no weakness
to escape him, vents no groan, gives way to no passion which we
do not entirely enter into, commands our highest admiration. His
firmness enables him to keep time with our indifference and
insensibility. We admire and entirely go along with the
magnanimous effort which he makes for this purpose. We approve of
his behaviour, and from our experience of the common weakness of
human nature, we are surprised, and wonder how he should be able
to act so as to deserve approbation. Approbation, mixed and
animated by wonder and surprise, constitutes the sentiment which
is properly called admiration, of which, applause is the natural
expression, as has already been observed.
Chap. II
Of those Passions which take their origin from a particular turn
or habit of the Imagination
Even of the passions derived from the imagination, those
which take their origin from a peculiar turn or habit it has
acquired, though they may be acknowledged to be perfectly
natural, are, however, but little sympathized with. The
imaginations of mankind, not having acquired that particular
turn, cannot enter into them; and such passions, though they may
be allowed to be almost unavoidable in some part of life, are
always, in some measure, ridiculous. This is the case with that
strong attachment which naturally grows up between two persons of
different sexes, who have long fixed their thoughts upon one
another. Our imagination not having run in the same channel with
that of the lover, we cannot enter into the eagerness of his
emotions. If our friend has been injured, we readily sympathize
with his resentment, and grow angry with the very person with
whom he is angry. If he has received a benefit, we readily enter
into his gratitude, and have a very high sense of the merit of
his benefactor. But if he is in love, though we may think his
passion just as reasonable as any of the kind, yet we never think
ourselves bound to conceive a passion of the same kind, and for
the same person for whom he has conceived it. The passion appears
to every body, but the man who feels it, entirely disproportioned
to the value of the object; and love, though it is pardoned in a
certain age because we know it is natural, is always laughed at,
because we cannot enter into it. All serious and strong
expressions of it appear ridiculous to a third person; and though
a lover may be good company to his mistress, he is so to nobody
else. He himself is sensible of this; and as long as he continues
in his sober senses, endeavours to treat his own passion with
raillery and ridicule. It is the only style in which we care to
hear of it; because it is the only style in which we ourselves
are disposed to talk of it. We grow weary of the grave, pedantic,
and long-sentenced love of Cowley and Petrarca, who never have
done with exaggerating the violence of their attachments; but the
gaiety of Ovid, and the gallantry of Horace, are always
agreeable.
But though we feel no proper sympathy with an attachment of
this kind, though we never approach even in imagination towards
conceiving a passion for that particular person, yet as we either
have conceived, or may be disposed to conceive, passions of the
same kind, we readily enter into those high hopes of happiness
which are proposed from its gratification, as well as into that
exquisite distress which is feared from its disappointment. It
interests us not as a passion, but as a situation that gives
occasion to other passions which interest us; to hope, to fear,
and to distress of every kind: in the same manner as in a
description of a sea voyage, it is not the hunger which interests
us, but the distress which that hunger occasions. Though we do
not properly enter into the attachment of the lover, we readily
go along with those expectations of romantic happiness which he
derives from it. We feel how natural it is for the mind, in a
certain situation, relaxed with indolence, and fatigued with the
violence of desire, to long for serenity and quiet, to hope to
find them in the gratification of that passion which distracts
it, and to frame to itself the idea of that life of pastoral
tranquillity and retirement which the elegant, the tender, and
the passionate Tibullus takes so much pleasure in describing; a
life like what the poets describe in the Fortunate Islands, a
life of friendship, liberty, and repose; free from labour, and
from care, and from all the turbulent passions which attend them.
Even scenes of this kind interest us most, when they are painted
rather as what is hoped, than as what is enjoyed. The grossness
of that passion, which mixes with, and is, perhaps, the
foundation of love, disappears when its gratification is far off
and at a distance; but renders the whole offensive, when
described as what is immediately possessed. The happy passion,
upon this account, interests us much less than the fearful and
the melancholy. We tremble for whatever can disappoint such
natural and agreeable hopes: and thus enter into all the anxiety,
and concern, and distress of the lover.
Hence it is, that, in some modern tragedies and romances,
this passion appears so wonderfully interesting. It is not so
much the love of Castalio and Monimia which attaches us in the
Orphan, as the distress which that love occasions. The author who
should introduce two lovers, in a scene of perfect security,
expressing their mutual fondness for one another, would excite
laughter, and not sympathy. If a scene of this kind is ever
admitted into a tragedy, it is always, in some measure, improper,
and is endured, not from any sympathy with the passion that is
expressed in it, but from concern for the dangers and
difficulties with which the audience foresee that its
gratification is likely to be attended.
The reserve which the laws of society impose upon the fair
sex, with regard to this weakness, renders it more peculiarly
distressful in them, and, upon that very account, more deeply
interesting. We are charmed with the love of Phaedra, as it is
expressed in the French tragedy of that name, notwithstanding all
the extravagance and guilt which attend it. That very
extravagance and guilt may be said, in some measure, to recommend
it to us. Her fear, her shame, her remorse, her horror, her
despair, become thereby more natural and interesting. All the
secondary passions, if I may be allowed to call them so, which
arise from the situation of love, become necessarily more furious
and violent; and it is with these secondary passions only that we
can properly be said to sympathize.
Of all the passions, however, which are so extravagantly
disproportioned to the value of their objects, love is the only
one that appears, even to the weakest minds, to have any thing in
it that is either graceful or agreeable. In itself, first of all,
though it may be ridiculous, it is not naturally odious; and
though its consequences are often fatal and dreadful, its
intentions are seldom mischievous. And then, though there is
little propriety in the passion itself, there is a good deal in
some of those which always accompany it. There is in love a
strong mixture of humanity, generosity, kindness, friendship,
esteem; passions with which, of all others, for reasons which
shall be explained immediately, we have the greatest propensity
to sympathize, even notwithstanding we are sensible that they
are, in some measure, excessive. The sympathy which we feel with
them, renders the passion which they accompany less disagreeable,
and supports it in our imagination, notwithstanding all the vices
which commonly go along with it; though in the one sex it
necessarily leads to the last ruin and infamy; and though in the
other, where it is apprehended to be least fatal, it is almost
always attended with an incapacity for labour, a neglect of duty,
a contempt of fame, and even of common reputation.
Notwithstanding all this, the degree of sensibility and
generosity with which it is supposed to be accompanied, renders
it to many the object of vanity. and they are fond of appearing
capable of feeling what would do them no honour if they had
really felt it.
It is for a reason of the same kind, that a certain reserve
is necessary when we talk of our own friends, our own studies,
our own professions. All these are objects which we cannot expect
should interest our companions in the same degree in which they
interest us. And it is for want of this reserve, that the one
half of mankind make bad company to the other. A philosopher is
company to a philosopher, only. the member of a club, to his own
little knot of companions.
Chap. III
Of the unsocial Passions
There is another set of passions, which, though derived from
the imagination, yet before we can enter into them, or regard
them as graceful or becoming, must always be brought down to a
pitch much lower than that to which undisciplined nature would
raise them. These are, hatred and resentment, with all their
different modifications. With regard to all such passions, our
sympathy is divided between the person who feels them, and the
person who is the object of them. The interests of these two are
directly opposite. What our sympathy with the person who feels
them would prompt us to wish for, our fellow-feeling with the
other would lead us to fear. As they are both men, we are
concerned for both, and our fear for what the one may suffer,
damps our resentment for what the other has suffered. Our
sympathy, therefore, with the man who has received the
provocation, necessarily falls short of the passion which
naturally animates him, not only upon account of those general
causes which render all sympathetic passions inferior to the
original ones, but upon account of that particular cause which is
peculiar to itself, our opposite sympathy with another person.
Before resentment, therefore, can become graceful and agreeable,
it must be more humbled and brought down below that pitch to
which it would naturally rise, than almost any other passion.
Mankind, at the same time, have a very strong sense of the
injuries that are done to another. The villain, in a tragedy or
romance, is as much the object of our indignation, as the hero is
that of our sympathy and affection. We detest Iago as much as we
esteem Othello; and delight as much in the punishment of the one,
as we are grieved at the distress of the other. But though
mankind have so strong a fellow-feeling with the injuries that
are done to their brethren, they do not always resent them the
more that the sufferer appears to resent them. Upon most
occasions, the greater his patience, his mildness, his humanity,
provided it does not appear that he wants spirit, or that fear
was the motive of his forbearance, the higher their resentment
against the person who injured him. The amiableness of the
character exasperates their sense of the atrocity of the injury.
Those passions, however, are regarded as necessary parts of
the character of human nature. A person becomes contemptible who
tamely sits still, and submits to insults, without attempting
either to repel or to revenge them. We cannot enter into his
indifference and insensibility. we call his behaviour
mean-spiritedness, and are as really provoked by it as by the
insolence of his adversary. Even the mob are enraged to see any
man submit patiently to affronts and ill usage. They desire to
see this insolence resented, and resented by the person who
suffers from it. They cry to him with fury, to defend, or to
revenge himself. If his indignation rouses at last, they heartily
applaud, and sympathize with it. It enlivens their own
indignation against his enemy, whom they rejoice to see him
attack in his turn, and are as really gratified by his revenge,
provided it is not immoderate, as if the injury had been done to
themselves.
But though the utility of those passions to the individual,
by rendering it dangerous to insult or injure him, be
acknowledged; and though their utility to the public, as the
guardians of justice, and of the equality of its administration,
be not less considerable, as shall be shewn hereafter; yet there
is still something disagreeable in the passions themselves, which
makes the appearance of them in other men the natural object of
our aversion. The expression of anger towards any body present,
if it exceeds a bare intimation that we are sensible of his ill
usage, is regarded not only as an insult to that particular
person, but as a rudeness to the whole company. Respect for them
ought to have restrained us from giving way to so boisterous and
offensive an emotion. It is the remote effects of these passions
which are agreeable; the immediate effects are mischief to the
person against whom they are directed. But it is the immediate,
and not the remote effects of objects which render them agreeable
or disagreeable to the imagination. A prison is certainly more
useful to the public than a palace; and the person who founds the
one is generally directed by a much juster spirit of patriotism,
than he who builds the other. But the immediate effects of a
prison, the confinement of the wretches shut up in it, are
disagreeable; and the imagination either does not take time to
trace out the remote ones, or sees them at too great a distance
to be much affected by them. A prison, therefore, will always be
a disagreeable object; and the fitter it is for the purpose for
which it was intended, it will be the more so. A palace, on the
contrary, will always be agreeable; yet its remote effects may
often be inconvenient to the public. It may serve to promote
luxury, and set the example of the dissolution of manners. Its
immediate effects, however, the conveniency, the pleasure, and
the gaiety of the people who live in it, being all agreeable, and
suggesting to the imagination a thousand agreeable ideas, that
faculty generally rests upon them, and seldom goes further in
tracing its more distant consequences. Trophies of the
instruments of music or of agriculture, imitated in painting or
in stucco, make a common and an agreeable ornament of our halls
and dining-rooms. A trophy of the same kind, composed of the
instruments of surgery, of dissecting and amputation-knives, of
saws for cutting the bones, of trepanning instruments, etc. would
be absurd and shocking. Instruments of surgery, however, are
always more finely polished, and generally more nicely adapted to
the purposes for which they are intended, than instruments of
agriculture. The remote effects of them too, the health of the
patient, is agreeable; yet as the immediate effect of them is
pain and suffering, the sight of them always displeases us.
Instruments of war are agreeable, though their immediate effect
may seem to be in the same manner pain and suffering. But then it
is the pain and suffering of our enemies, with whom we have no
sympathy. With regard to us, they are immediately connected with
the agreeable ideas of courage, victory, and honour. They are
themselves, therefore, supposed to make one of the noblest parts
of dress, and the imitation of them one of the finest ornaments
of architecture. It is the same case with the qualities of the
mind. The ancient stoics were of opinion, that as the world was
governed by the all-ruling providence of a wise, powerful, and
good God, every single event ought to be regarded, as making a
necessary part of the plan of the universe, and as tending to
promote the general order and happiness of the whole: that the
vices and follies of mankind, therefore, made as necessary a part
of this plan as their wisdom or their virtue; and by that eternal
art which educes good from ill, were made to tend equally to the
prosperity and perfection of the great system of nature. No
speculation of this kind, however, how deeply soever it might be
rooted in the mind, could diminish our natural abhorrence for
vice, whose immediate effects are so destructive, and whose
remote ones are too distant to be traced by the imagination.
It is the same case with those passions we have been just now
considering. Their immediate effects are so disagreeable, that
even when they are most justly provoked, there is still something
about them which disgusts us. These, therefore, are the only
passions of which the expressions, as I formerly observed, do not
dispose and prepare us to sympathize with them, before we are
informed of the cause which excites them. The plaintive voice of
misery, when heard at a distance, will not allow us to be
indifferent about the person from whom it comes. As soon as it
strikes our ear, it interests us in his fortune, and, if
continued, forces us almost involuntarily to fly to his
assistance. The sight of a smiling countenance, in the same
manner, elevates even the pensive into that gay and airy mood,
which disposes him to sympathize with, and share the joy which it
expresses; and he feels his heart, which with thought and care
was before that shrunk and depressed, instantly expanded and
elated. But it is quite otherwise with the expressions of hatred
and resentment. The hoarse, boisterous, and discordant voice of
anger, when heard at a distance, inspires us either with fear or
aversion. We do not fly towards it, as to one who cries out with
pain and agony. Women, and men of weak nerves, tremble and are
overcome with fear, though sensible that themselves are not the
objects of the anger. They conceive fear, however, by putting
themselves in the situation of the person who is so. Even those
of stouter hearts are disturbed; not indeed enough to make them
afraid, but enough to make them angry; for anger is the passion
which they would feel in the situation of the other person. It is
the same case with hatred. Mere expressions of spite inspire it
against nobody, but the man who uses them. Both these passions
are by nature the objects of our aversion. Their disagreeable and
boisterous appearance never excites, never prepares, and often
disturbs our sympathy. Grief does not more powerfully engage and
attract us to the person in whom we observe it, than these, while
we are ignorant of their cause, disgust and detach us from him.
It was, it seems, the intention of Nature, that those rougher and
more unamiable emotions, which drive men from one another, should
be less easily and more rarely communicated.
When music imitates the modulations of grief or joy, it
either actually inspires us with those passions, or at least puts
us in the mood which disposes us to conceive them. But when it
imitates the notes of anger, it inspires us with fear. Joy,
grief, love, admiration, devotion, are all of them passions which
are naturally musical. Their natural tones are all soft, clear,
and melodious; and they naturally express themselves in periods
which are distinguished by regular pauses, and which upon that
account are easily adapted to the regular returns of the
correspondent airs of a tune. The voice of anger, on the
contrary, and of all the passions which are akin to it, is harsh
and discordant. Its periods too are all irregular, sometimes very
long, and sometimes very short, and distinguished by no regular
pauses. It is with difficulty, therefore, that music can imitate
any of those passions; and the music which does imitate them is
not the most agreeable. A whole entertainment may consist,
without any impropriety, of the imitation of the social and
agreeable passions. It would be a strange entertainment which
consisted altogether of the imitations of hatred and resentment.
If those passions are disagreeable to the spectator, they are
not less so to the person who feels them. Hatred and anger are
the greatest poison to the happiness of a good mind. There is, in
the very feeling of those passions, something harsh, jarring, and
convulsive, something that tears and distracts the breast, and is
altogether destructive of that composure and tranquillity of mind
which is so necessary to happiness, and which is best promoted by
the contrary passions of gratitude and love. It is not the value
of what they lose by the perfidy and ingratitude of those they
live with, which the generous and humane are most apt to regret.
Whatever they may have lost, they can generally be very happy
without it. What most disturbs them is the idea of perfidy and
ingratitude exercised towards themselves; and the discordant and
disagreeable passions which this excites, constitute, in their
own opinion, the chief part of the injury which they suffer.
How many things are requisite to render the gratification of
resentment completely agreeable, and to make the spectator
thoroughly sympathize with our revenge? The provocation must
first of all be such that we should become contemptible, and be
exposed to perpetual insults, if we did not, in some measure,
resent it. Smaller offences are always better neglected; nor is
there any thing more despicable than that froward and captious
humour which takes fire upon every slight occasion of quarrel. We
should resent more from a sense of the propriety of resentment,
from a sense that mankind expect and require it of us, than
because we feel in ourselves the furies of that disagreeable
passion. There is no passion, of which the human mind is capable,
concerning whose justness we ought to be so doubtful, concerning
whose indulgence we ought so carefully to consult our natural
sense of propriety, or so diligently to consider what will be the
sentiments of the cool and impartial spectator. Magnanimity, or a
regard to maintain our own rank and dignity in society, is the
only motive which can ennoble the expressions of this
disagreeable passion. This motive must characterize our whole
stile and deportment. These must be plain, open, and direct;
determined without positiveness, and elevated without insolence;
not only free from petulance and low scurrility, but generous,
candid, and full of all proper regards, even for the person who
has offended us. It must appear, in short, from our whole manner,
without our labouring affectedly to express it, that passion has
not extinguished our humanity; and that if we yield to the
dictates of revenge, it is with reluctance, from necessity, and
in consequence of great and repeated provocations. When
resentment is guarded and qualified in this manner, it may be
admitted to be even generous and noble.
Chap. IV
Of the social Passions
As it is a divided sympathy which renders the whole set of
passions just now mentioned, upon most occasions, so ungraceful
and disagreeable; so there is another set opposite to these,
which a redoubled sympathy renders almost always peculiarly
agreeable and becoming. Generosity, humanity, kindness,
compassion, mutual friendship and esteem, all the social and
benevolent affections, when expressed in the countenance or
behaviour, even towards those who are not peculiarly connected
with ourselves, please the indifferent spectator upon almost
every occasion. His sympathy with the person who feels those
passions, exactly coincides with his concern for the person who
is the object of them. The interest, which, as a man, he is
obliged to take in the happiness of this last, enlivens his
fellow-feeling with the sentiments of the other, whose emotions
are employed about the same object. We have always, therefore,
the strongest disposition to sympathize with the benevolent
affections. They appear in every respect agreeable to us. We
enter into the satisfaction both of the person who feels them,
and of the person who is the object of them. For as to be the
object of hatred and indignation gives more pain than all the
evil which a brave man can fear from his enemies; so there is a
satisfaction in the consciousness of being beloved, which, to a
person of delicacy and sensibility, is of more importance to
happiness, than all the advantage which he can expect to derive
from it. What character is so detestable as that of one who takes
pleasure to sow dissension among friends, and to turn their most
tender love into mortal hatred? Yet wherein does the atrocity of
this so much abhorred injury consist? Is it in depriving them of
the frivolous good offices, which, had their friendship
continued, they might have expected from one another? It is in
depriving them of that friendship itself, in robbing them of each
other's affections, from which both derived so much satisfaction;
it is in disturbing the harmony of their hearts, and putting an
end to that happy commerce which had before subsisted between
them. These affections, that harmony, this commerce, are felt,
not only by the tender and the delicate, but by the rudest vulgar
of mankind, to be of more importance to happiness than all the
little services which could be expected to flow from them.
The sentiment of love is, in itself, agreeable to the person
who feels it. It sooths and composes the breast, seems to favour
the vital motions, and to promote the healthful state of the
human constitution; and it is rendered still more delightful by
the consciousness of the gratitude and satisfaction which it must
excite in him who is the object of it. Their mutual regard
renders them happy in one another, and sympathy, with this mutual
regard, makes them agreeable to every other person. With what
pleasure do we look upon a family, through the whole of which
reign mutual love and esteem, where the parents and children are
companions for one another, without any other difference than
what is made by respectful affection on the one side, and kind
indulgence on the other. where freedom and fondness, mutual
raillery and mutual kindness, show that no opposition of interest
divides the brothers, nor any rivalship of favour sets the
sisters at variance, and where every thing presents us with the
idea of peace, cheerfulness, harmony, and contentment? On the
contrary, how uneasy are we made when we go into a house in which
jarring contention sets one half of those who dwell in it against
the other; where amidst affected smoothness and complaisance,
suspicious looks and sudden starts of passion betray the mutual
jealousies which burn within them, and which are every moment
ready to burst out through all the restraints which the presence
of the company imposes?
Those amiable passions, even when they are acknowledged to be
excessive, are never regarded with aversion. There is something
agreeable even in the weakness of friendship and humanity. The
too tender mother, the too indulgent father, the too generous and
affectionate friend, may sometimes, perhaps, on account of the
softness of their natures, be looked upon with a species of pity,
in which, however, there is a mixture of love, but can never be
regarded with hatred and aversion, nor even with contempt, unless
by the most brutal and worthless of mankind. It is always with
concern, with sympathy and kindness, that we blame them for the
extravagance of their attachment. There is a helplessness in the
character of extreme humanity which more than any thing interests
our pity. There is nothing in itself which renders it either
ungraceful or disagreeable. We only regret that it is unfit for
the world, because the world is unworthy of it, and because it
must expose the person who is endowed with it as a prey to the
perfidy and ingratitude of insinuating falsehood, and to a
thousand pains and uneasinesses, which, of all men, he the least
deserves to feel, and which generally too he is, of all men, the
least capable of supporting. It is quite otherwise with hatred
and resentment. Too violent a propensity to those detestable
passions, renders a person the object of universal dread and
abhorrence, who, like a wild beast, ought, we think, to be hunted
out of all civil society.
Chap. V
Of the selfish Passions
Besides those two opposite sets of passions, the social and
unsocial, there is another which holds a sort of middle place
between them; is never either so graceful as is sometimes the one
set, nor is ever so odious as is sometimes the other. Grief and
joy, when conceived upon account of our own private good or bad
fortune, constitute this third set of passions. Even when
excessive, they are never so disagreeable as excessive
resentment, because no opposite sympathy can ever interest us
against them: and when most suitable to their objects, they are
never so agreeable as impartial humanity and just benevolence;
because no double sympathy can ever interest us for them. There
is, however, this difference between grief and joy, that we are
generally most disposed to sympathize with small joys and great
sorrows. The man who, by some sudden revolution of fortune, is
lifted up all at once into a condition of life, greatly above
what he had formerly lived in, may be assured that the
congratulations of his best friends are not all of them perfectly
sincere. An upstart, though of the greatest merit, is generally
disagreeable, and a sentiment of envy commonly prevents us from
heartily sympathizing with his joy. If he has any judgment, he is
sensible of this, and instead of appearing to be elated with his
good fortune, he endeavours, as much as he can, to smother his
joy, and keep down that elevation of mind with which his new
circumstances naturally inspire him. He affects the same
plainness of dress, and the same modesty of behaviour, which
became him in his former station. He redoubles his attention to
his old friends, and endeavours more than ever to be humble,
assiduous, and complaisant. And this is the behaviour which in
his situation we most approve of; because we expect, it seems,
that he should have more sympathy with our envy and aversion to
his happiness, than we have with his happiness. It is seldom that
with all this he succeeds. We suspect the sincerity of his
humility, and he grows weary of this constraint. In a little
time, therefore, he generally leaves all his old friends behind
him, some of the meanest of them excepted, who may, perhaps,
condescend to become his dependents: nor does he always acquire
any new ones; the pride of his new connections is as much
affronted at finding him their equal, as that of his old ones had
been by his becoming their superior: and it requires the most
obstinate and persevering modesty to atone for this mortification
to either. He generally grows weary too soon, and is provoked, by
the sullen and suspicious pride of the one, and by the saucy
contempt of the other, to treat the first with neglect, and the
second with petulance, till at last he grows habitually insolent,
and forfeits the esteem of all. If the chief part of human
happiness arises from the consciousness of being beloved, as I
believe it does, those sudden changes of fortune seldom
contribute much to happiness. He is happiest who advances more
gradually to greatness, whom the public destines to every step of
his preferment long before he arrives at it, in whom, upon that
account, when it comes, it can excite no extravagant joy, and
with regard to whom it cannot reasonably create either any
jealousy in those he overtakes, or any envy in those he leaves
behind.
Mankind, however, more readily sympathize with those smaller
joys which flow from less important causes. It is decent to be
humble amidst great prosperity; but we can scarce express too
much satisfaction in all the little occurrences of common life,
in the company with which we spent the evening last night, in the
entertainment that was set before us, in what was said and what
was done, in all the little incidents of the present
conversation, and in all those frivolous nothings which fill up
the void of human life. Nothing is more graceful than habitual
cheerfulness, which is always founded upon a peculiar relish for
all the little pleasures which common occurrences afford. We
readily sympathize with it: it inspires us with the same joy, and
makes every trifle turn up to us in the same agreeable aspect in
which it presents itself to the person endowed with this happy
disposition. Hence it is that youth, the season of gaiety, so
easily engages our affections. That propensity to joy which seems
even to animate the bloom, and to sparkle from the eyes of youth
and beauty, though in a person of the same sex, exalts, even the
aged, to a more joyous mood than ordinary. They forget, for a
time, their infirmities, and abandon themselves to those
agreeable ideas and emotions to which they have long been
strangers, but which, when the presence of so much happiness
recalls them to their breast, take their place there, like old
acquaintance, from whom they are sorry to have ever been parted,
and whom they embrace more heartily upon account of this long
separation.
It is quite otherwise with grief. Small vexations excite no
sympathy, but deep affliction calls forth the greatest. The man
who is made uneasy by every little disagreeable incident, who is
hurt if either the cook or the butler have failed in the least
article of their duty, who feels every defect in the highest
ceremonial of politeness, whether it be shewn to himself or to
any other person, who takes it amiss that his intimate friend did
not bid him good-morrow when they met in the forenoon, and that
his brother hummed a tune all the time he himself was telling a
story; who is put out of humour by the badness of the weather
when in the country, by the badness of the roads when upon a
journey, and by the want of company, and dulness of all public
diversions when in town; such a person, I say, though he should
have some reason, will seldom meet with much sympathy. Joy is a
pleasant emotion, and we gladly abandon ourselves to it upon the
slightest occasion. We readily, therefore, sympathize with it in
others, whenever we are not prejudiced by envy. But grief is
painful, and the mind, even when it is our own misfortune,
naturally resists and recoils from it. We would endeavour either
not to conceive it at all, or to shake it off as soon as we have
conceived it. Our aversion to grief will not, indeed, always
hinder us from conceiving it in our own case upon very trifling
occasions, but it constantly prevents us from sympathizing with
it in others when excited by the like frivolous causes: for our
sympathetic passions are always less irresistible than our
original ones. There is, besides, a malice in mankind, which not
only prevents all sympathy with little uneasinesses, but renders
them in some measure diverting. Hence the delight which we all
take in raillery, and in the small vexation which we observe in
our companion, when he is pushed, and urged, and teased upon all
sides. Men of the most ordinary good-breeding dissemble the pain
which any little incident may give them; and those who are more
thoroughly formed to society, turn, of their own accord, all such
incidents into raillery, as they know their companions will do
for them. The habit which a man, who lives in the world, has
acquired of considering how every thing that concerns himself
will appear to others, makes those frivolous calamities turn up
in the same ridiculous light to him, in which he knows they will
certainly be considered by them.
Our sympathy, on the contrary, with deep distress, is very
strong and very sincere. It is unnecessary to give an instance.
We weep even at the feigned representation of a tragedy. If you
labour, therefore, under any signal calamity, if by some
extraordinary misfortune you are fallen into poverty, into
diseases, into disgrace and disappointment; even though your own
fault may have been, in part, the occasion, yet you may generally
depend upon the sincerest sympathy of all your friends, and, as
far as interest and honour will permit, upon their kindest
assistance too. But if your misfortune is not of this dreadful
kind, if you have only been a little baulked in your ambition, if
you have only been jilted by your mistress, or are only
hen-pecked by your wife, lay your account with the raillery of
all your acquaintance.
Section III
Of the Effects of Prosperity and Adversity upon the Judgment of
Mankind with regard to the Propriety of Action; and why it is
more easy to obtain their Approbation in the one state than in the
other
Chap. I
That though our sympathy with sorrow is generally a more lively
sensation than our sympathy with joy, it commonly falls much more
short of the violence of what is naturally felt by the person
principally concerned
Our sympathy with sorrow, though not more real, has been more
taken notice of than our sympathy with joy. The word sympathy, in
its most proper and primitive signification, denotes our
fellow-feeling with the sufferings, not that with the enjoyments,
of others. A late ingenious and subtile philosopher thought it
necessary to prove, by arguments, that we had a real sympathy
with joy, and that congratulation was a principle of human
nature. Nobody, I believe, ever thought it necessary to prove
that compassion was such.
First of all, our sympathy with sorrow is, in some sense,
more universal than that with joy. Though sorrow is excessive, we
may still have some fellow-feeling with it. What we feel does
not, indeed, in this case, amount to that complete sympathy, to
that perfect harmony and correspondence of sentiments which
constitutes approbation. We do not weep, and exclaim, and lament,
with the sufferer. We are sensible, on the contrary, of his weak
ness and of the extravagance of his passion, and yet often feel a
very sensible concern upon his account. But if we do not entirely
enter into, and go along with, the joy of another, we have no
sort of regard or fellow-feeling for it. The man who skips and
dances about with that intemperate and senseless joy which we
cannot accompany him in, is the object of our contempt and
indignation.
Pain besides, whether of mind or body, is a more pungent
sensation than pleasure, and our sympathy with pain, though it
falls greatly short of what is naturally felt by the sufferer, is
generally a more lively and distinct perception than our sympathy
with pleasure, though this last often approaches more nearly, as
I shall shew immediately, to the natural vivacity of the original
passion.
Over and above all this, we often struggle to keep down our
sympathy with the sorrow of others. Whenever we are not under the
observation of the sufferer, we endeavour, for our own sake, to
suppress it as much as we can, and we are not always